Thinking of the past gambling the future but never living in the moment

Because many people have never prepared themselves. Even if a true child (female) appears, you are not able to retain them. Another reason we want to fall in love today is that many people have always misfocused their time. Time error type A There are people who think about their predecessors. Perhaps it is a good time to miss him, perhaps because he was deeply reluctant to be abandoned at the time, or perhaps he regretted that he had not grasped the opportunity in the past. In short, the feelings of remembrance, regret, or sorrow always occupy all their thoughts. Haven’t these people ever met new people again? Usually there are, but because you are overly immersed in the past, it is easy to compare newcomers with old ones. He didn’t say such a brainless thing before. But love is not a question of comparison. The old man may have better things, but he certainly has his problems; if there is no problem, he will not go to a parting ways. Only a lot of people always over-beautify the memories of the past, only remember the perfect part of the old man, and forget the problems that make the two people unable to get along well. Just constantly trying to find the shadow of the past from now on. But this is actually unfair to others. Because you should not build your own regrets on others. And such comparisons often only lead to complaints. More grievances, feelings are often weak, and finally the newcomer may have ran again. If the newcomer is really bad, then it will be fine. However, many people have to wait until they have lost, and they begin to miss the good at that time. At that time, he was really good for me. When the newcomers turned into the past, they began to take over and regretted what they had lost. This is tantamount to a recurring life in the memory of the past. Let yourself out of this tragic emotional cycle! The regrets of the past are heartbreaking, but that is the part of life. The next paragraph of love, please do not compare it with the past, after all, everyone is independent, everyone has his own brilliant. Advantages If you meet your expectations, other small details that are not perfect enough, please close your eyes. Don’t use it again and again to compare with the memories you missed. Don’t keep looking at what you don’t have, don’t always miss your regrets. Put down the past, empty your memory, and focus on the moment. Only in this way, good things will begin to accumulate. Time error type B Living in the past is a problem. Another problem is to focus too much on the future. Some people have ambiguity, expectation, and dreams for the future, and in order to achieve those goals, they have worked too hard and even intend to sacrifice the present to exchange their dreams for the future. For example, we are committed to making money, saving money, paying for a mortgage, and raising children, so we fight to the faintness of the sky and give up all the relationships around us – saving ourselves and sacrificing ourselves. The voice is: Let’s eat hard now, and wait for us to have money in the future. I am not saying that people do not have to save, nor do they want you to give up fighting. But saving money, buying a house or raising a child doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice everything. After all, life is hard to measure. Natural disasters and man-made disasters happen in a blink of an eye. Who knows how long we can be with our loved ones? The desire for what to do in the future may be a promise that will never be realized. In this case, balance a little, leave some resources and strength to the present. This is a caring and a responsibility to a partner. In addition Don’t forget, if your future is to be stable, it depends on every moment of today. The memory is not good now. The only memory of everyone is just shrinking and dieting. It is just to avoid wasting every day. It’s just gathering less and more. In the future, if you save enough money, pay the loan, raise the child, but two people There is no memory, no topic, no idea how to get along with each other. What does this future mean? Therefore, a good relationship, in fact, should invest some in the present, and there are some good memories of the present. Don’t worry about the future, just work alone, and forget to manage your current life. True happiness is the way to get along with the family, the joyful memories of the day, the laughter and care of people. If these are not, even if you are desperate to be a supervisor, buy a house, or make a lot of money, but no one is sharing with you, what are the meanings of these sacrifices? Conclusion Therefore, please don’t let yourself live in the memory of the past and expect the future, but forget to operate now. After all, the moment is actually what we are most worthy of. If the current business is not serious, after a while, it will actually become a regret in the past, and let the future of expectation not happen at all…